Families in Walnut Creek, Lamorinda (Lafayette, Moraga and Orinda) and the Oakland hills can work with a Blackburn mentor by video, in Pacific time. One dedicated mentor meets with each student or young adult weekly or more often, with text and phone contact between sessions. In-person meetings are possible when a client is in Los Angeles.
Through the tunnel
Highway 24 and the Caldecott Tunnel connect the Oakland hills to Lamorinda and Walnut Creek, and BART runs the same route into San Francisco. Many parents commute west for work in the city or south toward Silicon Valley. Communities here are known for open space around Mount Diablo and the regional parks, busy youth sports and well-regarded public schools.
The intensity of the Bay Area reaches into the suburbs. Students often feel they are being measured constantly, even when parents try to keep things calm.
Where students get stuck
High achievers running on empty
Some students are carrying a heavy course load, a sport and a résumé of activities, and the cost shows up as exhaustion or irritability. A mentor helps the student see what is essential and what can go, and protect sleep. If stress has turned into persistent anxiety or low mood, a licensed professional is the right step, and a mentor can work alongside one. In a crisis, call or text 988.
Capable students who have checked out
Others have quietly stopped trying. The work is not too hard; it just feels pointless. A mentor starts small, finds something the student cares about, and builds from there. See teen procrastination.
Young adults with no clear next step
Graduates who come home to the East Bay face high rents and a competitive job market. A mentor helps them set a search routine, build experience and make a plan for independence.
Making the commute work for the family
When parents are on BART or Highway 24 until evening, after-school hours can slip. A weekly session and midweek check-in give the student a plan for those hours that they built themselves. Parents receive regular updates on progress and stay part of the goal setting.
Online here, in person in LA
East Bay clients usually meet entirely by video, which keeps sessions consistent through travel, sports seasons and college. Students who attend school in Southern California or visit Los Angeles can meet a mentor in person there.
Getting started
- Take a short assessment. Tell us about the student or yourself and the goals. It takes about five minutes.
- Have a free intro call. Our team reviews it personally and sets up a short call.
- Meet the mentor. We match each person with a mentor whose experience and style fit.
- Start the plan. 30 or 60 minute video sessions on a weekly or monthly plan, scheduled in your local time.
Where a mentor helps
A mentor is one consistent outside adult who helps with goals, habits and follow-through. Mentors are not tutors, therapists or admissions counselors. Teen families start with mentoring for high school students, and college students often fit mentoring for college students. See the online mentoring page for how sessions run.
Related
- Online mentoring in the San Francisco Bay Area
- Online mentoring in Silicon Valley
- Online mentoring in Marin County
- Mentoring in California
Common questions
Is there a way to meet face to face?
Yes, in Los Angeles. In Walnut Creek, Lamorinda and the Oakland hills, sessions happen by video, with text and phone contact in between.
Can a mentor help an overloaded high school student?
Yes. Mentors help students prioritize, plan their week and protect sleep, and they keep parents informed with permission.
Are sessions scheduled in Pacific time?
Yes. Our team is also on Pacific time, so after-school and evening slots line up easily.
Get started
Want to talk about a student or young adult in the East Bay? Call (888) 305 5422, email contact@blackburnmentoring.com or start with a short assessment. A member of our team reviews every assessment personally and sets up a free intro call.