Blackburn Mentoring works with Long Island families by video. Our team is in Los Angeles; clients in Nassau County and along the North Shore meet a dedicated mentor online every week, scheduled in Eastern time, with text and phone check-ins between sessions. We work with high school students (always with a parent involved), college students and young adults building their first independent life.
Life on the North Shore and in Nassau County
Communities like Manhasset, Great Neck, Roslyn, Port Washington, Syosset and Jericho have a few things in common. Schools are competitive. Many parents commute to Manhattan on the Long Island Rail Road, so the household runs on train schedules. Students are often stretched across academics, sports, music and summer programs, and the calendar rarely has white space.
None of that is bad. It does mean a teenager can look busy and successful while quietly falling behind on the things that are not graded: sleep, planning, and knowing what they actually want.
Three situations we see often
The overscheduled student
Every hour is spoken for, and the week only works if nothing goes wrong. A mentor helps the student see the whole week at once, decide what matters, and build a plan with some slack in it. Our guide on teen sleep and school is a good starting point for parents.
The student home from college
Some Long Island students come home after a hard first year, or for a leave, and the structure of campus is gone. Weekly sessions and a written plan give the semester shape: work, classes, a return date, or a new direction.
The young adult between the island and the city
Recent graduates often live at home while starting a job in Manhattan or looking for one. The commute is long and the cost of moving out is high. A mentor helps with the practical pieces: savings targets, a job search routine, and a realistic timeline for a first apartment.
How the weekly rhythm works
- A 30 or 60 minute video session, weekly or several times a week.
- Goals broken into specific steps for the coming days.
- Short text or phone check-ins between sessions.
- With permission, regular progress updates to parents.
Long Island is three hours ahead of Los Angeles, so a 5 pm session in Nassau County is 2 pm for the mentor. Evenings after practice and weekend mornings are both easy to schedule.
Signs it may be time to bring in help
Parents on Long Island often wait until a report card forces the issue. Earlier signals are usually there: assignments finished at the last minute every night, a student who goes quiet when school comes up, a calendar so full that sleep is the only thing that gives. If two or three of those sound familiar, a short intro call costs nothing and gives you a clearer picture. Our guide does my teenager need a mentor? walks through the question in more detail.
Summer is different here
Long Island summers pull families toward the beach, the East End and long weekends. For some students, summer is when progress stalls; for others it is the best time to build habits before senior year or college. Sessions continue by video wherever the family is, so a plan started in June does not have to stop in July.
Where a mentor fits
A mentor is not a tutor, therapist or admissions counselor. The role is steady accountability and practical guidance from someone outside the family. For teenagers, see mentoring for high school students; for students already on campus, see mentoring for college students. Everything about how our online sessions run is on the online mentoring page.
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Common questions
Do you have mentors on Long Island?
Our team is based in Los Angeles. Long Island clients work with their mentor by video, which also means sessions continue when a family travels or a student is away at school.
Can sessions continue over the summer?
Yes. Because sessions are online, they can continue from a summer house, a job or a trip, as long as there is a quiet place and a connection.
How involved are parents with a high school student?
A parent or guardian joins the intro call, helps agree the goals and receives regular progress updates. The sessions themselves are between the student and the mentor.
Get started
Thinking about a mentor for someone on Long Island? Call (888) 305 5422, email contact@blackburnmentoring.com or start with a short assessment. A member of our team reviews every assessment personally and sets up a free intro call.